It's long been said that boys are given an overall advantage, in life.
After all, fierce competition is encouraged amongst males.
And, this is supposedly a good experience for males.
However, the opposite is true.
And, as a result, adolescence is vastly more difficult for for Boys:
under unnecessary pressure.
Basically, it's important to reevaluate your conclusions.
The manner in which boys are raised, is actually a form of discouragement.
We've always pushed boys too hard...
and, there's certainly nothing pleasant about it....
On a final note:
there's a few more things to consider.
This is clearly a form of strict discipline.
as well as, subornation.
He's learning to follow orders.
And, being trained in a communal system, to lose his sense of individuality.
as well as, giving up his privacy....
